TO MUM FROM MARVA AND PAUL MUM, WHAT DO WE SAY ABOUT OUR MUM? SHE WAS ALWAYS SOMEONE WE DID NOT ANSWER BACK, ONLY ONE LOOK FROM HER AND WE KNEW WHERE WE STOOD. SHE WAS ALWAYS HER OWN WORST ENEMY, SHE KNEW BEST AND NO-ONE COULD CHANGE HER MIND AS ALL THE FAMILY KNEW. IN ALL MY 22 YEARS (NO REMARKS PLEASE!) SHE MADE US ALL STAND TO ATTENTION WHENEVER NEEDED. WHEN I WAS A CHILD SHE WAS SITTING AT THE TABLE AND I TOLD ALLYSON TO FLICK CUSTARD AT HER, SHE DID , GUESS WHO GOT THE HIDING? YES ME! EVEN DAYS BEFORE LEAVING US SHE WAS STILL BOSSING US ABOUT, FOR EXAMPLE, PUT THE CREAM HERE AND THE WATER RIGHT THERE, MY BED IS UNTIDY! SO I TOLD HER NO WONDER I AM SO FUSSY, ITS HER FAULT, SHE LAUGHED WELL MUM NOW YOU ARE WITH DAD AND FREE OF PAIN AND SUFFERING. THANKS FOR LOVING PAUL THE WAY YOU DID, HE SO LOVED YOU TOO! GOD BLESS, SLEEP TIGHT, GOODNIGHT MUM, LOVE MARVA PAUL AND YOUR BABIES THE DOGS P.S. WHAT WILL WE DO NOW? WHEN WE ASK YOU SOMETHING AND YOU REPLY, “WHEN IM READY” WE WILL MIS YOU MUM